Thursday, 23 August 2012
The cost of a Greeting
Having made the mistake of being real ,I lived on a diet of vulnerability and shame for 6 months, because I fell for a scam from one of those dating sites,I later carried on determined not to lose all faith in human nature.
However,since then for some reason hard to explain I fell again ,This time I didn't lose cash , in fact the first time by way of logical explanation to myself I figure I gave my cash away, the second I lost the ingredient that helps you keep your life in balance.That was trust.
Justifying it anyway you wish , still makes you stupid and much as I am trying to change my perspective of myself the process is slow. It was the second time that cost so much I lost something much more precious to me than money, I like anyone else have a certain respect to what makes the world go round ,but I lost my trust in everything and everyone in all the circles of my life and this has hurt others apart from myself as I have misjudged as a consequence.
I am planning to find it and I plan to find it right where I lost it.Stability has always been my strong point throughout my life and now I cannot make a decision.At this moment I know my chances are slim ,but in order for me to regain a healthy attitude and fit all the pieces back together I will continue to try.
In some shape or form not only in the recesses of my mind , I am aware of the hidden forces but its not like backing the wrong horse and its not about fear or being a product of shattered dreams its about the ability to greet the world as I am.My shame has gone but my vulnerability remains and I don't just plan to be a patch on who I was , I have every intention of living a healthy lifestyle and living the remainder of my life with real friends naturally when I figure out who the hell they are .
Wednesday, 22 August 2012
Not So Natural... Not So Cool
I found this fab photo ' She has waited to long 'on the Internet and
it shows the serious side of what anyone will do for image. .Eating disorders such as anorexia and bulimia are very prevalent in younger girls.Today's society and lifestyle makes them believe that being thin gives them acceptability, but it's slim that is healthy and a woman has a natural shape. By eating a balanced diet and participating in healthy exercise, teenagers ,who are most at risk should be taught the beauty can come from within .Wearing the latest trend is great if you have the figure to do so, but it is not a patch on a healthy heart.Looking after what lies beneath the skin is a necessity.Stress incurred by these food disorders which are caused by long term dieting or bingeing leads to lack of stability and an inability for the victim to see themselves as they really are.The youth today have enough pressure ,so teach them about what is fit and natural early enough in life ,let them understand that being who they are is really just cool. Figure out my thoughts
Language is a tool we use to communicate but its only one of them.Language to some degree is actually thought dependant . Therefore we now have the question as to whether we can we think without language .
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As far as planning some future event such as thinking about 'What am I going to cook tonight' as I have recently made a promise to myself I will try to adopt a better diet ,this might consist of visual images only, but even if I can't remember some of the more exotic ingredients on the list, in general, I still do have a clear conception .
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Deductive reasoning. however, appears to need language ,that is assuming of course that mathematics or symbolic logic count as 'languages', which I am told they do, so how about music then? Don't composers of the language of melody,rhythm not to mention harmony create tunes that run through our head and don't we also use this as a form of language to fit how we express our emotions.
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In contrast to deductive reasoning, learning to use a language is a form of thought and many times if not most times involves deriving general principles from experiences of a particular nature, it would appear that both laboratory rats and infants manage this without the use of language.
The spoken language remains a powerful tool and it is used to communicate ideas and when used correctly does just that.Unfortunately, regardless of the huge diversity in languages and their use, the world today remains divided. The inability to maintain communication and communicate ideas is not always due to lack of ability but due to the cultural differences in thought,education,religion and political views.
Best explained I suppose, by saying "I am only responsible for what I say and not what you understand'.
Criticism on language use continues and each generation forms its own 'street style'. The basics remain the same,which is the conveying of an idea or principle. Subtle innuendos and alternative methods to deliver messages is something that is done continually between ourselves so as to be seen as politically correct in what we say.Sometimes it is even used as a means to convey the opposite of what we would dearly like to express but lack the necessary conviction to upset the balance by speaking out of turn.
So do we need to make more use of deductive reasoning in order to communicate properly?. Well maybe that applies to my generation only, but I believe language can still be used politely to convey ideas whether they are different or conventional.Personally I would much prefer to be referred to as 'ditsy' and not 'dumb'.Though the language of technology is certainly making me feel the latter.
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As far as planning some future event such as thinking about 'What am I going to cook tonight' as I have recently made a promise to myself I will try to adopt a better diet ,this might consist of visual images only, but even if I can't remember some of the more exotic ingredients on the list, in general, I still do have a clear conception .
Deductive reasoning. however, appears to need language ,that is assuming of course that mathematics or symbolic logic count as 'languages', which I am told they do, so how about music then? Don't composers of the language of melody,rhythm not to mention harmony create tunes that run through our head and don't we also use this as a form of language to fit how we express our emotions..
In contrast to deductive reasoning, learning to use a language is a form of thought and many times if not most times involves deriving general principles from experiences of a particular nature, it would appear that both laboratory rats and infants manage this without the use of language.
The spoken language remains a powerful tool and it is used to communicate ideas and when used correctly does just that.Unfortunately, regardless of the huge diversity in languages and their use, the world today remains divided. The inability to maintain communication and communicate ideas is not always due to lack of ability but due to the cultural differences in thought,education,religion and political views.
Best explained I suppose, by saying "I am only responsible for what I say and not what you understand'.
Criticism on language use continues and each generation forms its own 'street style'. The basics remain the same,which is the conveying of an idea or principle. Subtle innuendos and alternative methods to deliver messages is something that is done continually between ourselves so as to be seen as politically correct in what we say.Sometimes it is even used as a means to convey the opposite of what we would dearly like to express but lack the necessary conviction to upset the balance by speaking out of turn.
So do we need to make more use of deductive reasoning in order to communicate properly?. Well maybe that applies to my generation only, but I believe language can still be used politely to convey ideas whether they are different or conventional.Personally I would much prefer to be referred to as 'ditsy' and not 'dumb'.Though the language of technology is certainly making me feel the latter.
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